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Must- Haves

August 2019

When we first found out we would be moving to Japan I was very excited and then after letting it sink in, that excitement turned into a bit of anxiety. I was beginning to worry a little on how this adventure would go. I had traveled with my daughter since she was 7 months so we had our fair share of flying, however this would be my first time flying for more than 5 hours.

When my husband explained to me that this flight would be 16 hours, I instantly turned to many blogs and pintrest ideas to see what I could do to try to prepare for this experience as much as possible. We were planning to fly to our hometown first to spend some time with family and friends before our major move, so packing was super easy for me, then of course it got more complicated when I had to think beyond just the hometown flight. You see we were going from our hometown to Japan so I had to pack for both trips.

Below is what I have gathered for a packing checklist for our Flights

1. Passports- Birth Certificate/ Identification: Now I know I didn't need it for the domestic flight, but had to pack it for our international flight, though my daughter is like my twin,  I still had to prove that she is mine and I could travel with her. TIP: If you are traveling without your spouse or the other parent of the child, be sure to have some letter of approval indicating that they are okay with you traveling with the child outside of the country.

2. Entertainment: I knew that on the flight over my husband and I could only entertain our little one for so long, ( that's when tablets, gadgets, and other learning activities came into play) I literally bought new toys and hid them from her just so she could be as surprised and preoccupied while in flight.

3. Chargers:  I know you may think this one is a NO BRAINER, and let me tell you I have always added it to my checklist when packing because I didn't want to ever make the mistake of leaving it or not having it in a carry on bag within reach

4. Snack on Snack on Snacks: Now I don't know about you or yours, I do know that this little family LOVES to Snack and so I needed to pre-shop for all three of us to be able to snack. I knew that there would be complimentary meals for the longer flight ,I also knew that we needed to have something to eat in between the courses to hold us over. Including Gummies for the Toddler because when that flight takes off and lands there is a likeliness that the little ones ear will hurt and the last thing you want is your child screaming in pain. TIP: Grab a pacifier or bottle for a baby and have them drink or suck on the pacifier at those moments to avoid ear ache for them

5. Cleaning Wipes: Now this should go without saying and honestly this was all written pre-covid. If you have read other of my blog post you have learned from the previous tips, if it's not on the list it's not getting packed. SO yes cleaning wipes, I packed those that were both great for sensitive skin for us to wipe up our daughter and also cleaning wipes that would be needed to disinfect for the plane table, bathroom, any public place really because I'm like that

6. Soil Bag: You would think that this is a given once you have children trus, there are many spills, stains and accidents that are destine to happen, but guess what adults need them too. When traveling there is a possibility of someone bumping into you or you just making a spill on yourself and for my ladies, yes mother nature as I call it, you may call her aunt flow can come at the worst times (although I was pregnant at this time, this tip is if you're not),so its best to just always be prepared which leads me to my next tip

7. Feminine Hygiene Products/ Diapers/ Pull- ups : When traveling with a toddler you need to have Diapers and Pull Ups in your hand like it's a wallet (no foreal) it will become your newest fashion accessory and yes it will always be a necessity. Even if your child is potty trained, accidents are bound to happen when traveling. As for the Feminine Hygiene, ladies we all know to always be prepared whether it be for us or just to help out another traveler. Tampons, Pads, Feminine Spray or Wipes are just a must.

8. Change of Clothes: I can't stress enough how important having extra clothes packed on a carry or personal bag and yes also include undergarments not only for your child, also for you. I typically pack two outfits each because I have had my luggage lost for a day before and that was a domestic flight, I didn't even want to think about the possibility of it happening on an international flight, so in the bag the clothes went

Those were my top traveling items.

What are some of your must haves for traveling with a toddler or traveling in general?


 Mastering the Art of Relocation

August 2023



Moving every three years comes with its unique set of challenges, but as military spouses WE are some resilient masters of adaptation. In this blog post, I am going to provide five tips to help you navigate the process of relocating your families with grace, from saying goodbye to embracing new beginnings.Tip 1: Embrace Flexibility and ResilienceI have said this before in other post as well as on my IG, but it is true. Military life is synonymous with change, so be sure to just strap on your good bra (lol) and embrace the flexibility that comes with it. Be open to new experiences and challenges, they will teach you so much about yourself and those you want to keep around you. Your ability to adapt not only sets the tone for your family but also creates a positive environment for everyone involved.Tip 2: Building a support network is a crucial step in feeling more grounded with the changes and moves you face. Connect with other military spouses in your new community and share experiences. Online forums, social media groups, and local events provide valuable insights, tips, and a sense of camaraderie.Tip 3: Plan StrategicallyMoving involves detailed planning, and I mean detailed as there will be a lot of moving parts. Be sure to create a checklist for each stage of the relocation process, from pre-move preparations to settling into your new home.  Check out, Military One Source for a virtual Checklist. Also, a great organization known as The PCS Planners https://thepcsplanners.com/  have great resources for you to take advantage of.  Having a strategic plan in place helps alleviate stress and ensures a smoother transition for your family.Did you know? there is an organization that provides a scout (military spouses) that help you with relocating, and managing your own rental property they also provide you with a moving toolkit https://www.gomillie.com/ Tip 4: Prioritize Self-Care:Amidst the hustle and bustle of moving, don't forget to take care of yourself. Prioritize self-care to maintain emotional and physical well-being. Whether it's finding time for hobbies, exercise, or moments of solitude, self-care is essential during transitions.Tip 5: Document and Celebrate Milestones:Make the most of each relocation by documenting milestones and creating positive memories. Take pictures, journal your experiences, and celebrate the achievements – both big and small. This not only helps with the emotional aspect of moving but also strengthens your family bond.Military spouses possess a unique strength that allows them to turn the challenges of frequent relocation into opportunities for growth. By embracing flexibility, building a support network, planning strategically, prioritizing self-care, and celebrating milestones, military families can thrive in the ever-changing landscape of military life.Connect with me on my podcast, where you can join the exploration of each tip in detail and listen to the stories and insights from military spouses who have mastered the art of relocation.  #militaryspousejourney #movingwithgrace